friEND is not an END,,;,at the END friEND matters<>

Some people say that friend is an end, but still they need a friend at the end. When their love fails, when they need a company for a movie, when they need to booze and after the booze to stand still and get their asses to home safely, to cover their ass for their nasty behaviors, when they need birthday surprises, to look after their asses when they are ill and at the end this discussion never ENDS......∞

My Dear FriEND,

I originally wanted to write you a letter about why you’re my best friend and saturate it with all the generic reasons and adorable anecdotes, but I’m not going to do that because you already know why you’re my best friend, duh. If you didn’t, we probably wouldn’t have remained friends all these years. One,Two....Ten years? Thirteen? I actually have no idea.

Of course I don’t — I have no concept of time whatsoever. If it were up to me no one’s birthday or graduation or other important event would be remembered, because that’s the type of person I am; I can’t make it anywhere on time, or even on day, and I tend to forget where I’m going to begin with. But you remember things like this, and you know exactly how long we’ve been best friends. That will be the first thing you tell me after you read this. Thank you for knowing that. Thank you for knowing all the things I don’t...Stop!!  Wait a minute!!..I have stop calling my friend as a "Best Friend"..because friends don't have best or worst...You have to accept them..in whatever form they comes..it purely depends on your deportment's.

Thank you for always being closest to me even when we were in separate time zones and separate stages of life. Thank you for not letting us get split by dumb facts like (speed*time) or (distance/speed). Thank you for never giving up on our friendship, for never shrugging and being like “Eh, things change, people change” and drifting away vaguely because we’re victims of circumstance and we always have to face it,,and the finest thing is we have to face it together with no f***'n ego's. We all get distant to a certain degree when we make huge transitions but you didn’t let me get very far because you knew what was truly important.


Thank you for taking care of me in every way possible, for being there when no one else was or wanted to be and when you didn’t even have to be. Everyone has those friends who are friends but not really; who you always feel kind of awkward and weird about asking for help and like you have to clarify you’ll do them some kind of favor in return, but you’re not one of those. You never got mad when I didn’t call you for weekends  because I was too busy being someone’s boyfriend, but you were right there to pick up my heart-splinters when things predictably shattered/exhausted. You were and are there for everything, no bargaining or explanations needed.


Thank you for believing in me when I was too weak and exhausted to believe in myself. Thank you for pushing me, for repeating those affirmations that don’t mean anything in inspirational films but mean everything when someone who cares about you says them. Thank you for not judging me when I did something really stupid and nasty, but also thanks for telling me I was an idiot and probably shouldn’t have done the stupid nasty thing. Thank you for always being honest and making me a man of healthy deportment's.

Thank you for doing all the things friend does; for letting me sob into your shoulder when I need to and handing me the flask when there aren’t any more words. Thank you for always knowing who I am and reminding me of that when I forget. Thank you for being genuinely concerned with the outcome of my life and always listening, even when you’re tired. Thank you for telling me the things no one wants to hear and sparing the bullshit advice. I can’t think of many other people I’d actually take a bullet for.

And yeah, I know everyone likes to make grand emotional claims like that in Courier typeface against some Polaroid of a lonely lamppost, but the difference is I’d actually do it.

Love Always,
My Dear Friend......

So, finally we came to the END,,,,,The bottom line is "#At the END friEND matters"<>

SUCCESS ∝ NUMBER OF TIMES YOU FAIL , WHICH IS ∝ NUMBER OF TIMES YOU TRY (LIFE=RISK)

I came across this really nice video recently, which you will find below. Its message is very clear: “If you’ve never failed, you’ve never lived”. It’s a good reminder because as we live our day-to-day life, we tend to forget this very important message. We end up thinking that everyone that succeeds has had nothing but luck all their life and that they had it easy. Who can blame us too, I mean by the time we hear about someone making it, the focus is on the success, not on the long hard struggle to get there.

The truth is, everyone has failed. Everyone has failed miserably. As you have seen in the video, these pioneers and innovators all have experienced immense disappointments throughout their existence. Another one that I can think about is J.K. Rowling, author of the Harry Potter books. I recall reading about her recently, where she said at her lowest point she was suicidal, not knowing how she was going to provide for her kids.

Failing is a part of the game that is life. Imagine if J.K Rowling hadn’t pulled through and persisted with her vision. When looking at her success today, we’re talking about 400 million books sold, countless licensing deals, and being I believe the second richest woman in the UK after the Queen, it’s hard to imagine someone on the brink of suicide, but this is the reality of it. We all experience it. We’ve all failed, and guess what, we will continue to fail, because we absolutely need it to succeed.

Failing is trying. Without trying we never have a shot at succeeding. The quicker you can deal with failure, the quicker you are ready for success. Each failure is a building block to success. Some people cannot deal with failure, so they never try anything. The result: nothing. Nothing can happen without action. Life is all about action, and taking risks.

There is value in failures, as you can see. And most importantly, failures are lessons. What you can draw out of each failure is experience and knowledge that will help you succeed better. That is why you should never ever be afraid of failing, because there is absolutely nothing to fear. In the game of life, nobody plays a perfect game. If you think that some people lead perfect flawless lives, it’s your perception, but certainly not reality.

Accept that failure is a part of life, and the better you will be for it. Accept that you have failed. For some people, their past failures haunt them, and they never get over it. Accept it. Know that this is not some isolated incident, everyone has faced this. You are no different and your are not alone to be different. At least you tried…at least you LIVED! Also, accept that you will fail in the future. Some things will work, and some won’t. Preparing yourself mentally for this is smart. It’s realistic and logical.

Now, accepting is not expecting! You should never expect to fail. The ones that expect to fail realize their wishes very easily. You can be logical and accept that the possibility of failure does exist, but you can be confident in your chances to avoid such failure. This is crucial, as you do not want to become a habitual failure. Just knowing that even if you do fail, you will get over it, and that it won’t destroy you is so empowering that simply having that frame of mind increases your chances of success even more.

Without failure, how sweet would success be? If you ask me why tears are salty, I would say How can success be appreciated, without knowing the opposite feeling? I’m thinking of the closest example of this…over-privileged kids that had everything handed to them. How many times have we heard of such kids turning out to be complete disasters? Without having experienced the opposite feeling, they had no idea of the value of what they were given. So they destroyed it. For someone like J.K Rowling, who was suicidal at some point, how sweet do you think her success has to feel to her?

Anything that you are thinking of doing, any projects or endeavors that you have in mind, just give it a try. Live your life, and trying such things is living. The biggest hurdle that keeps people from succeeding is the fear of failure. It causes a sudden halt in progress, and no movement means no potential for success. Don’t be such a person. Don’t be afraid of failing, welcome it. Be ready for it. But expect to succeed, because in the end, you will.

Why deny yourself the opportunity to accomplish everything that you ever wanted out of life? This is the key that unlocks the door to your dreams. I say "Your success is directly proportional to the number of times you fail, which is directly proportional to the number of times you try". You can’t have one without the other. Be at peace with it, rise up, and give it your all. That is the only way to truly experience life at its fullest.:)

IS THERE ANY GOOD PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD???

 Technically speaking there are no good people. The Bible says in Romans 3:12, “All have turned aside. Together they have become useless. There is none who does good. There is not even one.” 

The reason there are none who are good is that God alone is truly good. Luke 18:19 says, “Why do you call Me good? No one is good except God alone.” God is the standard of righteousness, and all of us have fallen short of that standard Rom. 3:23. Therefore, there really aren't any good people

I'M A FAILED BLOGGER...........

I'm a Failed Blogger
I’ve never been popular in my whole life. I think there must be something inside me that didn’t get enough attention as a kid or something because I seem to find myself looking for it all the time. I think about some of the career paths I have walked down: I’ve been a Choreographer, a preacher (who gets to get on a platform and talk to people – getting attention), I’ve been a student chairman (here, there’s a real pressure to get people to like you because if they don’t, they let you know fast). I even started “blogging” because a lot of great bloggers are out there and they seem to know how to type just the right things to get lots and lots of feedback. Heck, I figured I’d tried everything else, why not see if I get some feedback, too.

And you know what I found out? Blogging is frackin’ hard!And what is the whole point of a blog? To get comments. Yes, it is! You know good and well that to write things that you have to simply “get off your chest,” you could simply write in a diary or a journal (by journal, I mean, the “book,” not the “webjournal”). You could even type it on your computer and save it away in your “My Documents/Private Diary of 10 pm Thoughts.” Nobody would ever have to see it. But, you don’t. Why? Because we have something inside us that wants people to give a crap! We don’t want our thoughts to remain silent. Especially controversial thoughts. Why? Maybe because controversial thoughts gain ATTENTION! And with attention comes what? More feedback. And I am no different. Choreographer. students chairman. Preacher). And now, Blogger. The only difference is that nobody reads my blogs. Well, if they do, they rarely comment on them.

I got fired because I blogged. I wanted attention. I got attention all right. And you know what? I still blog! Why? Because I'm an idiot? No, because I figure somewhere out there, somebody might just care enough about what I’m saying that they’ll comment back. Maybe even get a whole revolution of blogs going. Who knows? Maybe I could be one of those “Expert Bloggers” – you know who you are, if you are even reading this - that draws conversations and big dialogues over at my blog because I’m just cool enough to get people’s attention.Only I’m not cool enough.



I’m a failed blogger. I could hang my head in shame and bow out gracefully. But, I will probably continue to post these random thoughts because somehow, it means something to me. Who knows? Maybe tomorrow, somebody will see it and the whole “Emerging Pilgrim Blog Revolution” begins. And if not, maybe I’ll just take it on the road. Time once again to hit the Comedy Clubs. At least there if I don’t get laughs, I’ll get some food out of the deal.

                                             I'm a failed Blogger ,,amn't I?

WHY DO I NEED A MARKETING PLAN?

Marketing planning helps you develop products and services in your business that meet the needs of your target market. Good marketing helps your customers understand why your product or service is better than, or different from, the competition.

• Marketing is for all business - big or small
• Marketing helps you to find out what makes your business unique
• A marketing plan is a strategic document
• It's important to have a marketing plan, but it's just as important to keep it up to date

A good marketing plan can help you reach your target audience, boost your customer base, and ultimately, increase your bottom line. It's often required when seeking funding and helps you set clear, realistic and measurable objectives for your business.

Developing a marketing plan requires research, time and commitment, but is a very valuable process that can greatly contribute to your business success.

IS LOVE WORTH A RISK??

IS LOVE WORTH A RISK??




Is love worth the risk of getting hurt?
I’m scared to follow my heart
Afraid I will get hurt
Because there is so many questions un answered,
I have someone I love
Who is gone
What if he comes back?
But I’m with another
I don’t want to hurt him
Cus I still love him
So very much
But the other one
I am strarting to love
From a simple crush to 
So much more,
Its stupid to say 
“every time I see his message in my inbox 
I get compeletly happy and giggly
Like a little girl”
But its true
I cant help it
I just do,
It’s a rare thing
It only happened once, with the one who left
I would be lieing if I said I didn’t want him to come back
But im afraid to what will happen
I made some big mistakes
I cant take it back, but if I could, I would soooo take it back
With all my heart and soul.
but i can't deny this new feelings i have for my crush
hes becoming so much more to me
then i ever thought he would in such a short time
maybe its how he was nervous to ask me if i liked him
or how hes so sweet
or how we have things in common
or that he makes smile and so much more
all those things
make me want to risk all the love and heart i have
but theres always that what if in the back of my mind
but i need to push that in the back of mind
because i already made a mistake once of not going to someone and always wondering what it would of been like,
im not making that mistake again,
im going to risk all i have for him, for happyness, and love
but then he broke me,
twice,

Is love really worth the risk?

WHO IS "INTERNET BUFF"?

WHO IS "INTERNET BUFF"?

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